Dr. Nolove or: How I Learned to Stop Looking for Love or Anything Like It: Part 19: Estimated Time of Arrival

Preamble: this is a dating advice series from a formerly long-suffering comrade in the struggle. I’m out of the game for life but I’m offering up some hard-earned wisdom for those still grappling. (See bottom of this post for the legend, mission statement, and credentials.) “The trouble with being punctual is that nobody’s there to appreciate […]

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Dr. Nolove or: How I learned to Stop Looking for Love or Anything Like It: Part 12 in an Ongoing Series: The Paradox of Choice

Preamble: this is a dating advice series from a formerly long suffering comrade in the struggle. I’m out of the game for life but I’m offering up some hard earned wisdom for those still grappling. (See bottom of this post for legend, mission statement, and credentials.) The Paradox of Choice was a significant social science book […]

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Dr. Nolove or: How I learned to Stop Looking for Love or Anything Like It: Part 11 in an Ongoing Series: Dance Chemistry

Preamble: this is a dating advice series from a formerly long suffering comrade in the struggle. I’m out of the game for life but I’m offering up some hard earned wisdom for those still grappling. (See bottom of this post for legend, mission statement, and credentials.) Back 1999-2002, I took a shit load of swing dancing […]

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Dr. Nolove or: How I learned to Stop Looking for Love or Anything Like It: Part 10 in an Ongoing Series: The Beast In Me

Preamble: this is a dating advice series from a formerly long suffering comrade in the struggle. I’m out of the game for life but I’m offering up some hard earned wisdom for those still grappling. (See bottom of this post for legend, mission statement, and credentials.) You ever heard some mouth breather say “I ain’t related […]

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One Ghost Many Faces

Like the immature asshole that I am, I have a shit list. It consists, mostly… …of people who have Platonic ghosted me. I’m not claiming I’m an innocent. I’ve ghosted. I’ve got blood on my hands. But in the last couple of years, I’ve had a deluge of significant ghostings. These were people I cared […]

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