Cannibalism

I’ve been thinking of the #metoo movement and the modern 24 Hour news cycle and I’ve been thinking that I’m really fucking grateful that no bored investigative reporter has put me under the microscope. I’m not saying I’ve ever been even a shadow of what Harvey Weinstein was in the workplace. Shit, I have never, […]

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stephen a. smith is a clown

I don’t know what Stephen A. Smith was so offended by that he had to storm off the set* of First Take. (*I hate even linking to this site but primary sources are important) I don’t need to know. Stephen A. Smith was an enthusiastic supporter of serial domestic abuser Floyd Merriweather. Try googling “dumbest […]

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Adios “Amigos”

I was well into writing this strained and indulgent (my signature style) screed on why I left Facebook yesterday (on its 15th anniversary – yay unintended coincidences!). Then it hit me. Even after I chose to no longer use my time or energy on Facebook I was USING MY TIME AND ENERGY talking about why […]

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Dr. Nolove or: How I Learned to Stop Looking for Love or Anything Like It: Part 21: Self Portraits

Preamble: this is a dating advice series from a formerly long-suffering comrade in the struggle. I’m out of the game for life but I’m offering up some hard-earned wisdom for those still grappling. (See bottom of this post for the legend, mission statement, and credentials.) The following are self-portraits that capture my visage from the first […]

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