Cannibalism

I’ve been thinking of the #metoo movement and the modern 24 Hour news cycle and I’ve been thinking that I’m really fucking grateful that no bored investigative reporter has put me under the microscope. I’m not saying I’ve ever been even a shadow of what Harvey Weinstein was in the workplace. Shit, I have never, […]

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Adios “Amigos”

I was well into writing this strained and indulgent (my signature style) screed on why I left Facebook yesterday (on its 15th anniversary – yay unintended coincidences!). Then it hit me. Even after I chose to no longer use my time or energy on Facebook I was USING MY TIME AND ENERGY talking about why […]

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Dr. Nolove or: How I Learned to Stop Looking for Love or Anything Like It: Part 20: She Did Respond.

Preamble: this is a dating advice series from a formerly long-suffering comrade in the struggle. I’m out of the game for life but I’m offering up some hard-earned wisdom for those still grappling. (See bottom of this post for the legend, mission statement, and credentials.) Question: She didn’t respond to my text/email/DM/@/snapchat/voicemail (gross!)/whatever. What do you […]

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Dr. Nolove or: How I Learned to Stop Looking for Love or Anything Like It: Part 19: Groucho Marx And Me

Preamble: this is a dating advice series from a formerly long-suffering comrade in the struggle. I’m out of the game for life but I’m offering up some hard-earned wisdom for those still grappling. (See bottom of this post for the legend, mission statement, and credentials.) “I don’t want to belong to any club that would accept […]

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