I recently wrote about two people who had resurfaced after ghosting me. One was my 12 step sponsor. I have to give him credit; he has been responsive and supportive since his unghosting. He has backed up his words. I won’t ever count on him again or trust him again to the same extent but it’s […]Read More Unghostings: Part Deux
I posted about my shit list (which is largely but not entirely populated with people who ghosted me) recently. While writing that very post the first person on the list, my oldest friend, reached out to me and apologized for not responding to me for nearly a year. Maybe some universal agent tipped him off. […]Read More Unghostings
Like the immature asshole that I am, I have a shit list. It consists, mostly… …of people who have Platonic ghosted me. I’m not claiming I’m an innocent. I’ve ghosted. I’ve got blood on my hands. But in the last couple years I’ve had a deluge of significant ghostings. These were people I cared about […]Read More One Ghost Many Faces
Reference materials: 1. romantic ghosting (roasting?) 2. platonic flavor (posting) … In the aforementioned posts, I asserted that ghosting is not really even rude anymore since people do it all the time nowadays- to friends, family, and non-platonic (I really have to think of a snappier adjective). I’m still good with that. But the whole […]Read More Ghosting: Cruel To Be Kind?
I was friends with a great lady back in 2002 when I was doing my first residential tour in the district. We had a shared common hobby. We hung out every week. What the hobby was isn’t important to this post. Eventually I moved out of the area and at some point I concocted the […]Read More Humanity Bites, Part 2 In an Ongoing Series: Reunited (feint) And It Felt So Good (for a minute) OR Fauxhship, False Offers, and Platonic Ghosting.