You Know Some People

Today is the birthday of the 2nd most important person in my life. I know it’s kind of silly to rank people but I’m a data nerd and I like lists and rankings. Really, the top 3 are not ranked 1-2-3. They are more like 1a-1b-1c. All three are perfect in their own way. #2 […]

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Memory Lane

I was signing up for something that required photos that showcased my amazing personality and myriad interests (no, it was not a dating site; I’m done with that). I went to the photos section of my Facebook profile because people generally post happy shit on their social media sites. The curated slices of their lives make it […]

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Unghostings: Part Deux

I recently wrote about two people who had resurfaced after ghosting me. One was my 12 step sponsor. I have to give him credit; he has been responsive and supportive since his unghosting. He has backed up his words. I won’t ever count on him again or trust him again to the same extent but it’s […]

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Is Elsa Right?

Spoiler alert: She is right. (Let’s go back to the beginning now that I’ve offered up the ending.) There is friend X and friend Y. X is male. Y is female. They both are local. This is not the only X. This is not the only Y. But they’ll do for this post. X and […]

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Unghostings

I posted about my shit list (which is largely but not entirely populated with people who ghosted me) recently. While writing that very post the first person on the list, my oldest friend, reached out to me and apologized for not responding to me for nearly a year. Maybe some universal agent tipped him off. […]

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