Dr. Nolove or: How I learned to Stop Looking for Love or Anything Like It: Part 12 in an Ongoing Series: The Paradox of Choice

Preamble: this is a dating advice series from a formerly long suffering comrade in the struggle. I’m out of the game for life but I’m offering up some hard earned wisdom for those still grappling. (See bottom of this post for legend, mission statement, and credentials.) The Paradox of Choice was a significant social science book […]

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Dr. Nolove or: How I learned to Stop Looking for Love or Anything Like It: Part 11 in an Ongoing Series: Dance Chemistry

Preamble: this is a dating advice series from a formerly long suffering comrade in the struggle. I’m out of the game for life but I’m offering up some hard earned wisdom for those still grappling. (See bottom of this post for legend, mission statement, and credentials.) Back 1999-2002, I took a shit load of swing dancing […]

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Dr. Nolove or: How I learned to Stop Looking for Love or Anything Like It: Part 10 in an Ongoing Series: The Beast In Me

Preamble: this is a dating advice series from a formerly long suffering comrade in the struggle. I’m out of the game for life but I’m offering up some hard earned wisdom for those still grappling. (See bottom of this post for legend, mission statement, and credentials.) You ever heard some mouth breather say “I ain’t related […]

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Dr. Nolove or: How I learned to Stop Looking for Love or Anything Like It: Part 8 in an Ongoing Series: Under Pressure

Preamble: this is a dating advice series from a formerly long suffering comrade in the struggle. I’m out of the game for life but I’m offering up some hard earned wisdom for those still grappling. (See bottom of this post for legend, mission statement, and credentials.) If you talk to most people nowadays, except for those […]

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Dr. Nolove or: How I learned to Stop Looking for Love or Anything Like It or: Part 7 in an Ongoing Series: Date or date not. There is no try.

Preamble: this is a dating advice series from a formerly long suffering comrade in the struggle. I’m out of the game for life but I’m offering up some hard earned wisdom for those still grappling. (See bottom of this post for a full biography and mission statement.) . . . Most of us who have […]

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